update

Received an e-mail from my son, which was lovely, and for which I am thankful.
People have asked me has full contact now been established?
No, Grandparents(who moved home to be close to them) simply the best possible influence in their lives have also been banished. They(the kids and my wife) have left their school and lovely house in lovely Southport(money was no issue).My eldest son must now complete his final year in Primary school in smack city, Birkenhead! He told me(in his e-mail) they are staying at My wife's cousins. From the best school with the best results in Merseyside they have gone to the worst.There is absolutely no rhyme or reason in this. my youngest son loved his school, and was soaring. Full contact? No, phone calls, e-mails etc ignored, not surprising really as I have spent the last 5 years trying to keep my kids away from the shithole, where they now are.She made the decision and obviously cannot face telling me why.